balance yo sh*t out.

so ask yourself: exactly how capable to i allow myself to be? take a minute & think about it. are you a get up & get it done kinda person (this includes people who need an hour to get started)? or are you a sit there & talk yourself out of doing the shit you need to do to accomplish.. hell anything? your mind/mental state reflects in everything you do.   relationships, friendships, work ethic, parenting, all that. where you end up with all that depends on you. if you're going to the ocean & grabbing a thimble full of water, how tf do you expect to fill up a pool? make the shit make sense.  what you speak, what you do, what you think all manifests & materializes at some point, so what exactly are you putting out?   you are literally the only person capable of fulfilling your destiny. you must manifest & work for what you want. you have mediocre because that's all you're willing to speak. you hate your job because you're too scared to leave...

 you want better? do better.  be better. speak better.  live better.   the universe don't owe you shit but what you put out & if we being real... well...  this journey you're on is personal. it's specific to you. it's easy to get caught up in what other people got going on. but do you know what that person went through to get there? it looks like a blessing to you, but how you know it's not a curse to them? you won't get to your destination walking in somebody else's shoes.  as a matter of fact you really doing a lot of work for nothing, because they're shoes only move their life. why would you wanna walk in somebody old worn out shoes any way?  that whole thought process is something that will never make sense.   you have your own brand new shoes that'll take you wherever you want to go, but you'd rather walk in someone else's foot steps. it's detrimental to your next chapter that you stay focused on your shit only.  sit back ...

stop being so fuckin ungrateful.  at some point you're gonna have to acknowledge that your life ain't bad as it could (or should, for that matter) be.   at some point you gotta be thankful just for having breath & ability, cuz a lotta mfrs don't have those luxuries. some of the shit you mad about not getting could've been the very shit that ended your existence, yet instead of being grateful you dodged a bullet, you sitting there mad cuz you didn't get it. you'll never know what that no protected you from. you mad at yo funky ass job, but what about the fact you got one. you don't like the roof over your head, but what if that mfr was made out of clouds? you mad cuz it didn't work out with that kid other parent, but what you don't know is they over there giving somebody else high blood pressure & gray hair. stop worrying about what could've been and start being thankful for what is or get the balls & gumption to change the shit. whate...

business teaches you so much about people...  "friends" will have 5k+ followers, spend days on social sharing dumb shit to you but will never share yours.   "friends" will follow a million celebrities they will never meet, but won't follow you.   "friends" will sit in your face with a $1000 designer t-shirt on trying to convince you that $40 is too much for your brand...   "friends" will gladly go pay somebody to fucc them up, then expect you to fix it for free.   & then there's family, who will do all this & still expect you to treat them like they was in the gym with you... crazy shit. when they say strangers are more supportive than "friends & family" they ain't never lied.   "friends" be fake af.   "friends" be having ulterior motives.   it's ok tho.. everything happens in it's own time, with or without the help of the people around you... hell they usually do the least & expec...

the way a person feels about you literally has nothing to do with you.   at all.  see you gotta learn to be comfortable accepting people's opinions, even if it's a negative & about you.  are you that person?  if not, then why tf do you care what they think?  does their opinion pay your bills?  hell nah, i tried to deposit a few opinions & to no surprise that shit never appeared on a bank statement... granted, i'm making it sound like it’s the simplest shit in the world to do & it's not.  a large part of who most people are is based on who people want them to be...  on this journey, you have to be comfortable with not being accepted.  after all, you were not made to fit into someone else's story, you're supposed to be writing your own, but how can you possibly do that without being who you are?  the first step to getting past mfrs opinions is to first figure out who you are, then accept that, whole-heartedly.  it doesn't ...