they way they feel...

the way a person feels about you literally has nothing to do with you.  at all.  see you gotta learn to be comfortable accepting people's opinions, even if it's a negative & about you.  are you that person?  if not, then why tf do you care what they think?  does their opinion pay your bills?  hell nah, i tried to deposit a few opinions & to no surprise that shit never appeared on a bank statement... granted, i'm making it sound like it’s the simplest shit in the world to do & it's not.  a large part of who most people are is based on who people want them to be...  on this journey, you have to be comfortable with not being accepted.  after all, you were not made to fit into someone else's story, you're supposed to be writing your own, but how can you possibly do that without being who you are?  the first step to getting past mfrs opinions is to first figure out who you are, then accept that, whole-heartedly.  it doesn't matter how f*kd up you are (or aren't) you gotta own your shit.  that's the only way to fix it.  once you own who you are, you're better able to figure out who you don't want to be anymore.  this is where shadow work comes in, cuz let's just be real, you don't need anybody to tell you what's wrong with you, you've got a list longer than texas of shit you know you need to fix.  but where do you start?  my suggestion is with your root chakra, or muladhara as its properly referred to.  root chakra work is the key to establishing a foundation that you can flourish from.  the root chakra manages your state of grounding & governs the foundations of life & core issues such as basic needs, sense of security & how tf you feel.  once you get that shit straight, you'll feel like you're the shit again, as you should.  your thinking gets clearer, so you can focus on shit & you even start prioritizing & gettin shit done.  you'll notice a calm, graceful & f*kn consistently solid flow of energy that gives you a superpower when sh*t gets real.  the superpower you ask, you'll be able to deal with shit without going damsel in f*kn distress about everything.  you'll walk a steady path no matter what tf is going on around you.  the best part, you should be manifesting the shit you want successfully.  once you engage yourself in balancing your shit out, you'll notice you don't have much time for anything that isn't about increasing peace & higher vibration.   check balanceyoshitout.com/chakras to learn more on how to adjust your energy centers!