shit that just needs to stop...

i personally think the following shit needs to stop & if you don't agree you're prolly the person that does this stupid shit... 

• assuming a person is upset because they're saying what's on their mind.  they are reacting to something you did.
• telling people, it's them because they feel how they feel, address the shit & move on, you can't tell somebody when & how tf to feel. 
• getting mad at people for enforcing their boundaries & putting you back in your place.  you should've stayed tf in your lane to begin with.
•  poking at people then looking crazy when they go off, everybody has a limit, it's not your job to find out what it is & if you think it is, then you deserve pretty much whatever tf they give you in return.
• minding other people fuccin business... don't you have your own shit to do?  if not, find something else.
• letting people make it... the world is like it is cuz we started letting mfrs make it.  had people been put back in their places sooner this entitled bullshit prolly wouldn't exist.  
• blaming other people for your shit.  no baby, it's your shit, you need to fix it yourself.
• giving solutions to people who keep coming up with problems... let them figure that shit out.
• enabling self-sabotage.  if you know your friend does shit then plays victim, call 'em out on that shit.  real friends correct negative behaviors, they don't condone it.
• always having negative shit to say, that's honestly why nobody likes you.  does anything good ever happen in your fucking life ever?

 the quickest way to lose your peace & grounding is by letting mfrs tell you who you're supposed to be.  you are exactly who tf you are & if you choose to change some shit about you, ok cool, but do it because it's what you want to do.  not because someone who doesn't live your life, in your shoes, told you it's what they would've done.  i've learned on this journey is that people seldom accept you for who you are, more often they accept you for who they think you should be or who they think they can turn you into... part of balancing your root chakra is going to be setting some fuccin boundaries and making everyone respect them.

this is it for now, but this post will definitely resurface later.